She is going to take us on a personal journey looking inside of how life was before she was diagnosed with clinical depression. Feel what its like to be in her shoes and find out her 15 ways of coping with this challenging illness, depression.
Raina is a Psychology student who understands the importance of caring for mental health. She blogs about depression, anxiety, fibromyalgia, men and mental health and parenting kids with ADHD.
I am a mother to three beautiful kids and a wife to a remarkable man. I was an active and joyful person. Outdoor activities were my favorite. There is something special to me about nature and its beauty. My friends always think of me as the unshakable and composed one amongst us. They think that I have it together. Friends and family depended on me to solve problems and tell them what to do because I was a go-getter, a smart and blunt woman. I was a good actor. I would panic behind the closed door and get it together in public. But I had everything under control.
My life collapsed when I suddenly became ill. An illness that will forever change my life and ‘loved ones’. My activity level had significantly decreased, I am no more an active and joyful person. I could no longer see past my pain and struggles. Normal household chores became an impossible
mission to accomplish. Who knew fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue could be so complicated to manage. Yes, I am strong, smart, unshakable, and skilled. But I am also human with little control over what happened to my body.
You see, as strong and smart as I am, I am not immune to depression. Our body and mind can only take so much. When you are dealing with chronic pain, it’s difficult to think of anything else. As a result, you have limited activity and you start to isolate yourself. Although my illness was sudden, my depression wasn’t. It started with low energy which I associated with chronic fatigue, then came the loss of motivation in activities I once enjoyed, followed by isolation, anger, and frustration. Accepting help was the most difficult decision for me to make. How can I, the strong and unshakable me be depressed? And if I am, well, I will work through it on my own. I couldn’t be more wrong about fighting depression on my own.
I had to swallow my pride and accept that I am indeed depressed and that I needed help to survive. Yes, it wasn’t an easy decision, but it’s a decision
a strong person must make. It took every ounce of me to make the first step in seeking help. But I did it, and am proud I did because even though I will have depression, I have the right tools to help me manage it and live a healthy life.
You need to remember that these techniques are not a quick fix for depression, it takes time and commitment to get results. Take one step at a time, the speed does not matter. Slow and steady progress is the key here. Be patient with yourself and your loved ones as they are trying their best to understand you and meet your needs.
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